Italian reflexive verbs

Today we study a group of verbs called “verbi riflessivi” (reflexive verbs). We already know the reflexive verb “chiamarsi” which is one of the first verbs the students learn in a Italian course. This verb, in fact, is used to introduce ourselves or to ask someone’s name. The expressions: “io mi chiamo ...”, “tu ti chiami ...” can be translated literally with “I call myself ...”, “you call yourself ...”.

But when a verb can be defined reflexive? The answer is easy: a verb is reflexive when the action carried out by the subject has an effect on the same subject. To better understand let’s see some examples.

  • Io mi lavo sempre con l’acqua fredda. (I always wash myself with cold water)
  • Giovanna si alza alle 7.00 ogni mattina. (Giovanna gets up at 7 am every morning)

Sometimes the action can affect only a part of the subject like in the following examples.

  • Si lavano le mani con un sapone idratante. (They wash their hands with a moisturizing soap)
  • Mi asciugo i capelli con il fon. (I dry my hair with the hairdryer)

You can understand that a verb is reflexive by the ending "si" attached to the infinitive (chiamarsi, lavarsi, alzarsi).
The present tense of the reflexive verbs can be formed by dropping the infinitive ending –ARSI, –ERSI, –IRSI and adding for each subject pronoun the same final endings we use to form the present tense of regular verbs. The only difference is that we need to remember to put the following reflexive pronouns before the verb:

MI = myself
TI = yourself
SI = himself, herself
CI = ourselves
VI = yourselves
SI = themselves



ALZARSI
METTERSI
VESTIRSI
io
MI ALZO
MI METTO
MI VESTO
tu
TI ALZI
TI METTI
TI VESTI
lui / lei
SI ALZA
SI METTE
SI VESTE
noi
CI ALZIAMO
CI METTIAMO
CI VESTIAMO
voi
VI ALZATE
VI METTETE
VI VESTITE
loro
SI ALZANO
SI METTONO
SI VESTONO

  • A che ora vi svegliate di solito? (What time do you usually wake up?)
  • Oggi mi metto la giacca rossa con i pantaloni di seta. (Today I put on the red jacket with the silk trousers)

In Italian many verbs used to express emotions are reflexive. Here is a list of the most common:

ANNOIARSI = to get bored
ARRABBIARSI = to get angry
DEPRIMERSI = to get depressed
DIVERTIRSI = to have fun
INNERVOSIRSI = to get nervous
LAMENTARSI = to complain
PREOCCUPARSI = to worry
SPAVENTARSI = to be frightened
SENTIRSI TRISTE / FELICE = to feel sad / happy

  • Mi spavento quando vedo un cane. (I get scared when I see a dog)
  • Ci sentiamo un po’ tristi perché dobbiamo partire. (We feel a little sad because we must leave)
  • Non mi rilasso durante il fine settimana. Ho sempre tante cose da fare. (I don’t relax during the weekend. I have always many things to do)